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At the same time what ever you put down about yourself must not be confusing. It just does not work to
put down a statement like, “while I am not really given to sports, nor am I considered to be an outdoor person, I have developed
a passing interest in watching football, and have had my stints with Terra firma.” Phew! If,
anything drives people away, statements like this certainly do. >For Heaven’s sake avoid phrases like “I am different,”
especially when you are talking about your appearance. The other person will in all likelihood conjure up images of a three
horned monster or a lion tailed monkey. Another example is when you use phrases like, “I don’t play by the
rules,” or “I am game for something new.” These expressions can be hopelessly misleading and it is the easiest thing in the world
to add a sexual innuendo to such an expression and that would be a sure shot method of biting off more than you can
chew.
Now that we have discussed the major pitfalls, let us go the real profile. The reason I said real profile is
that the profile must indeed reflect the person you are.
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